When Things Don't go According to Plan - #198
What do you do when your biggest goal slips through your fingers? When something that should be easy just falls apart?
In this raw and real episode, I share a personal story after a surprise elimination at a 2* event that derailed my path to the 7-year-old World Championships. Alongside Lorna, we unpack what it really means to reframe a “failure” and keep moving forward with clarity and confidence.
In this episode, we talk about:
- The emotional rollercoaster of watching your goals slip away
- Why riding “a level down” doesn’t always mean an easy round
- How complacency and expectations can quietly sabotage performance
- The danger of letting your ego (or Instagram!) define your self-worth
- My powerful 3-step post-competition reflection process
- What to do when you see someone else succeed at your goal
- Why setbacks don’t mean you're not good enough, they just mean you're growing
If you’ve ever:
- Felt blindsided by a disappointing competition
- Wondered if you should just stop setting goals altogether
- Struggled to bounce back when things don’t go to plan
- Compared your messy middle to someone else’s perfect highlight reel... …
then this episode will meet you exactly where you are, and show you how to shift.
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